Tips For Manifesting Love
In honor of Valentine’s, we asked Gabby & Erica to both share their favorite tip for how they personally manifested their love story!
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Gabby:
Manifesting my soulmate and finding ultimate true love has been one of my favorite manifestations in my life thus far. Like many individuals who long for true, deep, romantic love… my journey did not start out as an easy one. I used to roll my eyes every time I saw an engagement post on Facebook. I’d feel lonely and depressed at weddings. I believed that none of those things would ever become possible for me. Then, through shadow work, I learned that what I was actually feeling was jealousy.
Jealousy can be a wonderful spiritual teacher. When we feel jealous, it is a reminder that what we are seeing, seeing that someone has something that we want and crave, is a mirror. It is a reflection to show that we are worthy of all our desires.
Once I realized this, I began to train my mind to turn every jealous feeling into a positive mindset and affirmation that I am worthy of what I am witnessing. It started out as a conscious shift, that eventually became second nature to me. Every time I saw someone get engaged, I’d congratulate them, and remind myself that it would happen for me too! I celebrated others’ joy and love as if it were my own!
From there, I started focusing on the love I already had in my life. Not romantic love, but familial love and friendship. And in doing so, I nurtured the relationships I already had, and began to see myself through my loved ones’ eyes. I saw myself as a genuine, loving being, who is so worthy of finding true love, a spouse, a partner to start a family with.
By consistently giving care and gratitude to my family and friends, I opened up my heart chakra, loved myself deeper than I ever had before, and fully believed my true love was on his way to me! These mindset shifts were what I needed to magnetize myself for love. I hadn’t just believed, I knew, that my soulmate was on his way to me.
And sure enough, I met my husband not long after I changed my mindset around love. So the next time you feel jealousy or sadness that someone else is celebrating their true love, remind yourself they are your mirror! They are demonstrating the love YOU are worthy of! And keep nurturing and tending to the love you already have in your life. You will feel abundant in love every single day!
Erica:
If you know me today, you may see I have a relationship that I call a dream come true. But, before that, I once felt love was my biggest struggle area. And in order to get to my happily ever after, I personally did so much work to change my mindset around love.
In my mid-twenties when I realized my love life was less than the magical fairy tale I always dreamed it would be, I knew something needed to change. So I dug deep and really analyzed my limiting beliefs. I realized I had been constantly thinking for years things like: “I never meet anyone good” “there’s no one good to date” “Boys my age don’t want a committed relationship” and because I was thinking that, that’s what was manifesting as my reality.
So my number one best tip to manifesting love is to watch the words you speak and think about love! Whatever you think, feel, and believe about love is exactly what is going to show up in your reality.
Once I consciously made an effort to realign my thoughts (and I did this by catching myself every time I defaulted to my old “stories” around love and replacing them with the new thoughts of: “it’s so easy to meet someone amazing!” “I have so many options!” “there’s someone good who wants a committed relationship!”Etc), it’s no coincidence that my true love manifested into my life.
While consciously editing the way you speak and think about love is the most important tip, here’s also what I believe is the most fun tip around manifesting love:
Utilizing movies and TV shows!
Watching rom-coms and TV shows with the cutest romances actually help you attract love!
Our subconscious brains don’t know the difference between our reality and perceived reality, so when you are watching a TV show or rom-com and feeling all the feelings as you root for your favorite couple to get together, your brain is going to think that’s what you’re actually experiencing. Thus, that’s the energy that’s going to get projected into the universe and come back to you manifesting!
I personally realized that this is such a powerful and easy way to manifest love because I actually did it twice this way - both times on accident! In high school, I watched Gossip Girl and my teenage self absolutely adored the Love Triangle between Blair, Chuck, and Nate … and I remember just feeling it so deeply in my heart how romantic and dramatic that seemed. So, it’s no coincidence that as a seventeen year old, I accidentally manifested myself right in the middle of a love triangle 🤣🙈
Several years later, I had been binge re-watching my all-time favorite sitcom, The Office, on repeat… and this time around, Jim and Pam’s romance hit me soooo hard. I remember my heart just radiating with love for how cute of story they had and I remember just thinking “I want that!”
Not too long after, I manifested a new job, and while there I quickly became good friends with one of my co-workers to the point where we evolved into actual best friends. We were constantly goofing around, laughing, had so many inside jokes. We texted all the time, went to hockey games together, and even hung out outside of work as I invited him along to hangouts with my friends from time to time. We just clicked and had that amazing, effortless chemistry. And then slowly over time, it started to feel like something more. It shifted into realizing we were in love with each other.
Now all those years later, that co-worker, is now my fiancé. Literally, the same as Jim and Pam’s story! And I know, it’s absolutely no coincidence, that it all came together after watching their love and feeling I wanted the same.
So, if you are looking to manifest love, watch all the rom-coms, watch TV shows, and keep celebrating and cheering for your favorite couple and truly feel like it’s also already yours … because someday soon, it just might be!
To work on manifesting your own love story, you can work with either Gabby or Erica! Head to our 1:1 services page to see your options and book!